What is the hardest personal question someone could ask you? And have you answered it?

I honestly think that the hardest personal question is not much of personal... as in private... because I will tell you what you want to hear, if you're sure you want to hear it. The past never makes for what I will do in the future but has made me who I am today. And today will only mold me into what I will be tomorrow.

The hardest question anybody can possibly ask me is... "Do you think you can spend the rest of your life with me?" And it's not about not being able to because I am sure that when you're in love you're willing to leave the nest to create a home... but more for fear as if it wouldn't work... I guess we never really know whether this can happen but have hope for it to last forever right?

I don't take a lifetime so lightly... I believe that a marriage is forever... a love, a life is to be made together forever. Being, Catholic...( I know people get divorced and I don't find it right but I guess it's not just black and white but to me there's barely any gray area here in my opinion -- the way I look at it) but for me I would like to do it completely right and all the way which if I were to get married it would be under my church doctrine and civil of course... but the way that our church doc works is that marriage is forever... Divorce doesn't count... and doesn't matter... you will still be married to that person under their law...even if there is a legal divorce. The only way you can get away from this is an Annulment which would go through Vatican. Anything less than that, you could never remarry under  the church until "death do you part" of one of the parties of course ...  And also because if you're just married by law (living with your "spouse") under the church you're not considered married and you cannot be a full practicing Catholic...

I know a little strict but it's the way I grew up knowing and respecting... the it's a sacred act of God and God is the one who guides us to find (in my case) a man who will be there to respect me and I him...  But, this I would do... if the person is willing to go through it all with me and if he were in a different religion, of course, we know practicing people are to be respected about their beliefs and I'm not going to change who you are because I can't. But, Compromise (I would love you and this is what I would be willing to do)... we can do it the 3-ways... Civil (court), your church and I would do the requirements they expect of me, as long as you do the same thing for me and we get married under my church...

I don't know if I made this complicated... but, to me this is one of the hardest questions for this reason...
*shrug* 


And I have never had  the opportunity to be asked... obviously I am not married ...

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