I was just reading a post about your So's phone ... and people really don't trust the people they love and I still don't understand why... for the most part whether you're a guy or a girl, you've been cheated on at least once... sometimes you give them second chances or third who knows... But, it hurts... basic part of life.
I personally, I am a trusting person to an extent, I trust you until you do something that makes me question our bond.... And it takes time to repair...its not so easy to jump into something again pretending as though that incident didn't occur... As, in looking through your phone I would be curious sure why not... but coming down to look through it, I can refrain myself.
I am sure (quite certain) that most of the world is not in a perfect relationship and by now, I really think that all of us have been burned at least once in our lives --- if you haven't yet--- wait for it, it's coming your way. InNO way am I wishing anybody's relationship bad luck but it's truth.You have be a heck of an exception for it not to happen to you once... but anyways, back to topic.
It is a privacy issue but I am perfectly fine them having numbers of friend:girls or guys... jealousy okay sure sometimes but rarely (confidence )... if you start spending you time with somebody all the time suspicions arise...
it's easy though- texts can be deleted including other forms of communication that can lead to an argument or questionable doubts. If he trusts me he'll let me see it, and then if he does why do I really need to look through his phone anyways... We all need to have more trust in the love we have/share for someone else... if they want to look through my phone ok... fine!!! I COMPLY! But, would I want them to? NO! Do I have something to hide, maybe, maybe not... but I respect you and you will respect me... I trust you and you trust me... but would I want them logging on to all my sites? (that's because in my blackberry... I have it all accessible) But, that's serious distrust... but I'll show ya if you want to know, just ask....
But, the moment you allow disrespect or allowing others to over step boundaries (specially yours) you'll be heading down hill and you'll be rolling quick.
If they're cheating eventually you'll feel it. It's the distance, the lack of connection, but then again it can just mean it's over... It's not always about someone else but the connection you have with each other. you'll still feel the same pain anyways... idk just let things play out... why be so jumpy...
Trust is very importantly and more than anything being Honest!
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