maybe I'm not confused... just confused...complicated

So things are now kind of complicated but not. I feel a little stuck in between walls but I am not. I might start liking him but I also think of someone else. My head tells me to give him a chance and then my heart doesn't respond but I am a little scared. I don't know in which form he is really talking to me yet? He blows me kisses and says that he misses me. He talks to me pretty much everyday so he is trying extra hard I would say. He has a lil 4-yr old daughter which I don't mind I mean I have Danny right? For the time being he is at his parents... I think he moved back in when he got the lil girl in his custody but not sure. I had asked him where his lil girl was and he said sleeping in her own room  and so I asked how many rooms their house had and he said 5. I told him that he lived in a pretty big house so he makes a come back with "Plenty of room for you and Danny." See it's those kinds of comments which confuse me... He is an extra extra busy guy working his regular job and then has his producing music on the side so I know he will get to travel quite a bit but what I asked him was "Why does he kind of like me?" and he says " I don't kind, I like you. I love different and that's what you are in a good way"... Yea, I know people always seem to like me because I am different and weird. "A dork" like he eloquently put it last nigh... I guess the other reason is that I have never been the type that he seems he would go out with... and that was my main concern but I guess maybe that's what he is looking for... change... I can tell you I have him half figured out... I think. I know I have always been harder in understand or read my signals... that's why unless you're a little more forward then you wouldn't know how I feel. I haven't told him I like him but he does make me smile so I don't know. I've been thinking for days... that if somebody stepped up to the plate... but nvm ... see this is why things are sometimes so complicated... girls start getting people and it seems like it's going to go well and then we wish somebody would do or would have done the same thing. wtf... and you know what it's us who make things so freaking complicated... stupid brains sometimes need to stop thinking... We get something we want in our life and we question it? If I asked the question no doubt someone would  say hey try it... you have nothing to loose ( but myself), you can get happiness... I've been stuck at home for so many years helping and helping that if it happened that i left... the parents would struggle but I guess that's a part of life no? But, I guess what I am worried about is whether he wants long term... or not...see there are guys who already have a plan in mind or think they do. But then he makes comments like he has enough room for me and Danny... and well he says he does like me... I mean when its just a whatever there is just attraction, no? I don't know... Last night, we were talking and he said something and he said he would take me out to a nice diner and a concert... I told him I don't really care for concerts... and he said well not a concert but with orchestra and stuff... so I said a symphony... and he said yea. so I asked him if he had ever gone to any and he said 6 times in the last year which I was quite impressed... I think when he mentioned that it made me like him a tad more. I'm not a music freak... I mean I've seen my share of concert since I was a music major but I love them and enjoy them a lot. And he likes them too... not many guys would admit or much less want to take a girl to one of those... Either he's starting to figure me out pretty good or we might actually have things in common. I guess we'll see what happens in the next few weeks... I don't know... I think the hardest part which he realizes was that I use to live down the street pretty much and now I live a whole town over, lol, at least a good hour drive... I don't know... I guess just see what people do and how much motivation is driven ...