Sunday, March 29, 2009

Okay so I think I have a quick minute. I know yesterday I was so freakin' exhausted yesterday. Well yesterday I finally took Danny to a birthday party he had been asking to go to for the last couple of days. He even started to let go of the diapers as an incentive for me to take him to the party. So we got to the party and well I did feel a little .out of place. I only knew one person but I really wasn't there to socialize, I was there for Danny to have fun. We were pretty much the only minority and I forgot how weird one can feel not being in a comfortable environment. Well not only was a minority racially but age wise as well. I did feel a little awkward the whole time but I didn't mind because Danny was having so much Fun. I spoke to a couple of people. I was sitting and I was talkign to someone and a Lady figured out that I was a Redlands' Alum and so she spoke to me briefly. The other person I spoke to was my 3rd Level Theory Teacher in Redlands. He brought mr up to date to what was going on in school and well it seems as though the situations haven't gotten any better.Well we were there the couple of hours and I started to leave at 2:30... Danny started giving a fit because he didn't want to leave but I was ready to run a little. The lady that invited me she is so nice and I like talking to her but I didn't feel a little out of place. Maybe I was the only one who left like that, I don't know.

Danny left crying because he didn't want to leave because of the birthday party. But it was time to go anyways.

I went driving for a while and well first I was trying to figure how to get out because I was not sure where in Redlands I was at but once I figured it I headed to the Good Ol' U of R. I wasn't sure if the Multicultural was on saturday so I was going to go around Campus and verify and it was so I went to the parking lot behind the Chapel and I parked. Well we were some African drums so I took Danny to go check them out and it finished so we went walking for a while. I took Danny to the jumpers and at first they were fine and wanted to g oin for the first time so I took his shoes off and well he was without shoes for the rest of the day.  Well I took him to get ice cream and then he wanted to go back to the the jumpers and I took him. He started jumping and having so much fun. Yesterday was the first time he go into a jumper and started being a little more independant.  I got to see my lil sis Veronica Davila and a few other girls and new actives... I spoke with them for a while.  It was mostly Danny and I and well me chasing him everywhere.  I had been waiting for the Indian dancers. I always look forward to them every year. But this time the festival was made longer because they usually come out at 5pm and this time I think not until like 6:30. I was quite dissapointed because by that time Danny was so tired so he asked me to go. I would have waited the half and hour but he couldn't handle. They are awesome. I also got to see Diego, my son's aunt's fiancee, for a brief moment. It was nice seeing him after such a long time. The funniest thing was when Danny was in the jumper. He was so happy and Well Jennifer Thomas, another girl that went to Kaiser and played Clarinet was managing the jumper. He would just spend his time there and go to go. After that one time we went to go sit down at a table she had friends at the table next to where I was sitting. Danny had just told me he wanted to go to he jumper and he sees her.  He goes to her and taps her twice. it was the cutest thing in the world. He tells her, " I wanna go to the jumper" And she tells him you have to ask mommy. Of course I had seen how he reacted being with her and I said yes... Danny  had me all over the park which I didn't mind but he would have had more fun if he had another kid to play with. He was trying to follow older kids.

After that I went and took Danny to the car and sat him in his chair. Well I had been talking to cristal, a cousin , well actually my mom's cousin but we say she is our cousin because she closer to our age. She is inbetween my sister and I. Well on thursday we went to go pick up some products from her mom, my mom's aunt, and well they were just there and she was sitting in her sofa. I didn't think anything of it. When we went to the car. My aunt or great aunt... I don't know... she told us that her daughter was pregnant. I was surprised because a few months back she had had a scared and well I wasn't sure if it was the same one. But when we where inside I coldn't see a thing. Well I was wondering why she didn't tell me this time but time flies. Well she told me on friday when she texted me. And we talked for a while via text and I told her if we could talk. So I went over on Saturday night. And wow she is pretty big. I was so shocked. She is supposedly or she is 5 1/2 months but she is a little big for that but I don't know. But she is excited and I am happy for her. She is going to be having a boy and she is due on June 22nd in Arrowhead. Another baby. Our aunt isn't too happy but she is 23 now I mean I was wondering if she was ever going to setle down. So well I at least know she will calm down now. I am happy and excited for her.   I sometimes wonder what my mom will say since she is her Godmother... but things happen right. 

Oh and today Danny started going to the restroom. Even though he has his little toilet there in very accesible areas he instead started going to the real toilet. Well firstly he called me to the restroom to tell me he had pooped. And when I went in I almsot thoguht that in the floor but he had flushed the toilet so I didn't believe him so I had him bend over so I can check him and the funny thing was that he had and apparently he went in the restroom and flushed it. Now he goes to the rest room and standing up he will pee and put his undies back on and flush and leave. He just runs and does it by him self without asking for help. I was suprised because I didn't expect it but I am happy he has innitiative and is smart enough to go by himself stand and well as of now he still hasn't really needed help.

I was just confirmed for my cousin's daughter's 7th birthday this Saturday! I am sure Danny will be excited to hear about it. 

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