Abortion is a very sensitive subject for many or isn't for some but it's a subject that I for a long time have had thoughts about. I, my self, am Pro-Life but I wasn't what it entitled in any way.It's not like I wasn't pro-choice, sure I believe women should have the right to do what ever they want with their bodies BUT they should also know responsibility.

This morning I woke up and started thinking of the position that Sarah Palin is (McCain's running mate) and well she is obviously pro-life as well. But doesn't believe in abortion if there is rape or incest...hmmm, ok! Now she also promotes only abstinence ideals. Now a few days ago we all found out that her 17 year old daughter is pregnant and keeping the child. Well of course she would have to say that... it would go completetly against her party's ideals. But, why is it that her daughter is pregnant and didn't practice safe sex...oh because they don't allow that in Alaska. Now, this young girl is going to marry her baby's daddy and well congrats on them but how long does a young marriage actually work? I don't know...

well, anyways...
If we all took the life of another more seriously poor babies wouldn't be suffering. How is it so damn difficult practice safe sex? How hard is it to not wear a condom? Well, my boyfriend hates them because they don't feel good. I don't like them either it doesn't feel the same. Well it does feel the same for girls. As for guys I don't know but then if you want the whole feeling them go get birth control It would be safer to use both condom and birth control but people whine about everything. Hey if you don't want to wear contraceptives and you don't want kids then fuck it don't have sex.

But, I love sex.

Then do something right. I do think abortion is wrong but if we were all a little smarter it wouldn't have to be so wrong. If you had sex... well take the morning after pill, obviously you can't so that every time but safe sex has to come in hand. Also, there is RU-486.  But seriously people don't wait until you are 2 months, 3 months... 6 months and are now having doubts. That is stupid and irresponsible. A person has to know that when they do something there are consequesces. If a person has an unwanted pregnancy they should only have a limit until the end of the 1st month. 4-5 weeks total. Morning after pill is only available 72 hours after sex.

We need to all teach our children sure sex is not the right thing to do until you're reponsible but consider the world we live in now. Girls are getting pregnant earlier and earlier and don't only blame the girl. At the end sometimes she is the one has has it worst off to have to hear"Slut", "keep your legs closed"! The boy has just as muich responsibility as well and some how they are notconsidered that responsible. It almost feels as though some boys have detachable penises and do the deed and disapear. There is the poor little girl, who didn't know about safe sex because they only told her not to have sex(abstinence is key) , with a belly growing  week by week. We need to tell our kids the responsibility that comes with sex. The posibilty of pregnancy. We should have all kids take health and each one carry their own baby for a week. Trust me it's not as hard as having the real baby next to you for years to come.

This has been in my mind one because when I got pregnant I didn't really know what to do. My ex at the time wanted me to have an abortion in my 5th month. He begged me, please, and bribed me but I said no. I told him that it was something we were both going to have to live with. I was on birth control but he left my life and I stopped taking it. So obviously that was irresponsibilty but no turning back. I have my son now. He is about to be 3 in december. I knew a little about safe sex but only because he taught me. Now imagen that I would have relied on the school system I would have been pregnant in high school. Sometimes lust or urges cannot be resisted in a teenagers life and that is why we all need to have the talk. It's funny though how all of a sudden he took the position of abortion when he never believed it before.

anyways,
Teach safe sex
Practice Safe sex
Abstinence is old school and doesn't work anymore
(teach them to be prepared)
Teach both kids: boys and girls that it's both of their responsibility

Also, people Rape is a crime and a girl should not have to keep that baby. She will probably feel so low after to have to then tell her a few weeks later... Hey, guess what? You're Pregnant!... it would be the end of the world.  We also need to teach girls of rape and what to do. Go to a hospital and don't be ashamed. It's harder to live yourself than going to ask for help. Ask for a rape kit and I don't know if it includes the morning after pill but I believe it should. That way it prevents a lot of things from happening.

Incest, that's a no brainer unless the couple actually wanted it that way. But there are so many weird things happening now that brothers or family member are taking advantage of the women in their family and it's not fair...