I love my son like all mothers should but lately it has been a bit harder. Well my son is 4 and has always know the things he likes and what keeps him busy. Lately, he has become more selfish and only cares about number 1 and getting what he wants. He has been throwing some fits that oh God sometimes I am riveted and don't know what to do. Its those times that makes me feel like I am doing something wrong.
Danny has been having this attitude of stop what you are doing and do what I need you to do now. A sort of I want to eat this and make it for me. It makes me feel like a mother servant if you will. it sort of reminds me of his father and makes me thank God even more we parted ways. I can be a rather submissive person and having 2 strong character personalities in my life would be overwhelming. Don't get me wrong I love him with my whole heart but I don't always know how to deal with the tantrums. Being mainly him and me is hard. He says he knows I have money. Well I at least am trying to solve part of the problem.
Yesterday I bought him a little piggy bank which I was going to make him buy with his first $2 allowance I have him. But I had a change of heart and bought it myself. I gave him an extra $1 as well. after we bought the piggy and were hearing home he started asking for the guitar hero bc he assumed that BC he had money and a piggy bank he could but it now. He cried for hours of anger. It hard to explain when they don't understand but it has to be done that way. Today he asked my grandma, my mom and dad to contribute to his piggy bank. He is a money person. Since he was little. I just hope he learns how to manage and that is why he has started his allowance. Times are changing!
When I was little I wasn't allowed to ask for anything much less get money. U am going to need more guidance and patience from God.
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