... Quite possibly from the first relationship whether long term or from your first love you've ever had. We all go through it and some of us take it a little harder than most and others move on. I realize what some of these girls go through because I went through it and it's not to mention that life is never a for sure thing, or better yet a person in your life isn't a for sure until you both decide to make a commitment for life, through it all and no matter what.I just read a small blog based on mediocre relations that lay ahead after your first love and yea you need to dig through sh*t to find the adequate person for you to spend your life. Most will be mediocre until you find your one true love and even though you might feel as though they might not quite meet the expectations as your first love (which would have been your first at everything or first at love).. I am sure that once you meet your one you will see you were blinded by nostalgia and weren't giving yourself a true opportunity to be happy. The person that you end up staying with you will make you the happiest person in the world. Well the goal is to try your best. You as a couple are meant to "bring out the best out of each other" and if you're not then either work on that or there is someone better for you out there.
I am just saying. Sure I haven't been in many relationships for that reason but I've dated and met pretty diverse guys. And to answer another blog "Does the feeling of loving for the first time ever come back?" Yes it does. Point blank... and this you learn from experience.
I use to feel as though no one would ever meet the criteria that my one love I had so many years ago had... and slowly dating, I started learning through gentlemen about a give and take relationship and a different type of happiness which can lead to love.
It's always best to be open to change and not think that because they're not your ex ,you just broke up with or was in loved with, they can't make you happy.And please don't compare your now person with you ex... it can pressure your new person to feeling unworthy...
Sure we all have our qualities and we all have ex's and we can all compare (without limits if we want) but it's best to analyze mentality in that perspective. Keep your ex to yourself unless you want the possibility to something great to wither. You and only you have the potential to making someone happy... not the thoughts(of what your ex did) that you liked...Be patient and stop being so depressed... be happy, go out, have fun, enjoy your friends, do hobbies... don't change your life because all of sudden you feel like you're missing something or someone in you life. You're a whole person and no one will ever complete you but yourself. A Person will compliment you and add spice/flavor to you but you were never really broken to begin with so stop thinking in that mentality. The only time 2 halves become a whole is in the chromosomes of when a baby is being made and that's it... lol! Be yourself and be happy and the person who is meant for you will be... Don't wait around, don't force yourself and it will happen when you least expect. :)
Hope this made sense!
Does anybody else have something to add?!?!
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