Thursday, August 29, 2013

updates

I've been around but every time I log on there aren't many people posting here. It makes me sad. Well makes sense with still so much uncertain with which 2.0 entails but at least we finally received an update today. I'm still anxious to see what it's going to look time. I've been here since 2004. I go time through out the years where I do take breaks but it's not because I leave but because I take time out from the blogging scene. 
A single mom with a child in 2nd grade surely has busy times with homework, cooking and maintaining everything i must do. This year they're trying to concentrate more on reading with the kids which is wonderful because my son needs that. I also enrolled him in an earlier class in his school. He usually starts school at 9 but since I put him in a tutoring class type at 7:30am... the transition was different and I little tougher for me it seems but it's working out so far. 
My parents left town for a little bit. My dad is helping his bro fix up his house in Minnesota. And he wanted my mom to go so so far she's been relaxing our there. Travels are tough when you're going to try and work and there was no money from the beginning but I wish them the best until they come back. It was my dad's birthday on the 27th (Tuesday) and I was okay, I spoke with him on the phone. It was nice, but I'm so use to buying a lil cake and celebrating that way. I was a bit emotional. 
Since my parents are out of town working the once a week is hard. I can't go to work if there is no one to meet my son here and since we've lived here a few years and don't know people around here. I know they're friendly but you don't typically see people out and much less just randomly trust people you don't talk much to. And the neighbors you would trust are hardly here. Haha so it was a struggle. I was going to go ask a neighbor that lives a few blocks away but we don't talk much and Danny would have to get off the bus and walk out there. I felt compelled not to go work. My love saved the day. I didn't think that was an option but he truly shows his love to us. He's taken vacation days on those few tuesdays to allow me to work. It's not much work but the gesture and  favor is more than I can ever repay. I'm a lucky woman to have a man like this. 
We just found a school mate from my sister (A little girl that lived down the street from us when we were growing up, who my mom watched her for a little, her brother helped tutor me when I was 10 on the clarinet) 's body was down on a river. Well they barely Identified the body. She had disappear last january and the body was found as a Jane Doe in April and her body had already started decomposing so it wasn't too recognizable. But, thank God they found out who it was. So sad that since her body was found in a bad shape the cause of death is undetermined and may never be found. Her name was Ana Karina. May her soul rest in peace and her family finally receive closure. No one deserves to go through that but we always never have a say in the way we're all going to go out. 

Monday, August 19, 2013

Snoog420's niece passed away

I know many of you have been wondering where she @snoog420 went ... well she's been ....not here.... kind of, even though she's come back recently as @NoiteOrquidea But, this isn't really about her even though we want to show her love and support for what her family is going through.  I know many of us aren't too much around but none the less we're all a family and a community here and if it were a family member of ours or even our own kids we would be pulling together to help ease pain. 
Snoog's (Ani)family is trying to raise funds for her cousin and husband to help with everything with their little daughter's death. I know some of you can't because times are hard but some of you may be able to and it would all be greatly appreciated. 

Follow this link ... here oor copy and paste this  gofundme.com/3wzt9g ... Any donation will help no matter how small. Please take a moment! 
Go say hi and to snoog and help her out. The loss of a child in any family is painful. 
All I thought was, what if it was my child? What would I do... May God grant this family the strength and love to over come such a hard time. 
Please go help them and donate what you can! 

From the bottom of my heart, I thank you all! May you all be blessed!

Friday, August 2, 2013

I'm having twins

Nothing is scarier than waking up with two of your calves screaming in pain, wanting to escape your body... it's bad enough when it's one but when it's two...AHHHHHHHHhhhhh!!!!!
You get the picture.
All that talk about pregnancy last night and your family wanting you to have kids and then you realizing that you didn't take your pills right over the weekend creep up bad when you realize that you mainly haven't had your calves hurt that bad since you were pregnant with you son, who is 7 1/2 years old. 
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yea that's when the thoughts of conversation creep up... 
And my mom's story with the beans... (Mexican, tall tale) 
Apparently, when they're cleaning the beans if one falls out or something it means 
"BABY"
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(according to my dad)
So then my mom reminded my dad that story and then she said she dropped two. 
And my dad said, "TWINS"
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And she tells me the story last night, and she laughs telling me that maybe I'll be the lucky one to have twins. They've been on this one for a while. I think they want me to have kids or something... scary!!! 
And every time they bring it up I laugh nervously and want to 
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My aunt yesterday, was telling me that Danny was older now and it was time for me to have kids. Haha funny people... always trying to give suggestions. 
And I woke up to all those thoughts. And I thought, "Oh shit! I'm having twins"  
But, I'm not. haha You can point a finger and laugh if I do in the next 9-10 months others wise... I'm not! 
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Hahahahahaha 

Scary thoughts... 
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Monday, July 29, 2013

Last Post/Farewell

I saw that xanga is a little over $10,000 short. It makes me sad that it might not make it. As much as I have been on and off since 2004, this place has been my home and the place where I have confined the best.
I'm sure going to miss having all of you in the same page to scan and read posts. Everybody is so scattered now. Mainly most of you are in wordpress. I know I'm not there and that makes it tough but a few of you are in blogger and through that I can follow you in wordpress. I know it's not the same but I will do my best.
This was very fun while it lasted and I'm so glad I met so many of you. Well, I met a handful in person and what a privilege that was. And, instead of meeting some of you I spoke through messages we got to know each other more that way.
I mean I met my boyfriend here @cucumber_melonhead. I was actually looking forward to and when/if we took the leap of faith/life and ever made it official to post about it but none the less the memories here are endless. The memories that started on xanga and became real life are priceless. I can't say how sad I am that this is happening, but I'm glad we talked and you're all wonderful people. You all meant so much to me. *big bear hug*

Xanga has been the place where I was able to vent. The first place I was able to feel as myself and felt people accepted. Never in life had I felt this happy. It came such a part of me that Xanga broke a relationship I was starting, then I met another great person who helped me find myself and ultimately helped me find the love of my life. I'd say this is major for my simple little life.
Thanks to all of you wonderful xangans. Not, only because you're wonderful people but because your posts  helped with issues in life, helped me understand that I wasn't alone, gave me advice, helped me understand different positions and even understand different  religions. I learned I'm  passive when it come to arguments. I found myself here and I gain more confidence. This site what I needed to be me.

Thanks!

Farewell to some and to other's ttyl, and to other's I will see you in other places.
Miss you all...

Love with all my might,
Rey Flores



I borrowed Johnson's glasses, messy hair... ;)


Then we all played water balloons and water fighting with my son. fun times this weekend.

A happy family, indeed! =D
Simply Us! <3
Thank you for reading. Hope you are having a wonderful summer! Peace!!

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Saturday, July 6, 2013

How to contact me

Well I honestly don't know if xanga will survive or not but as much as I love reading other's posts I enjoyed blogging myself. That was what helped me during my years of need. Sadly, even if xanga does make it, wont be able to afford to pay just to blog. I love this site and it's what I've grown the most comfort with. Oh well....

If anybody is ever interested they can surely email me to:
pinktiger335@yahoo.com or pinktiger335@gmail.com

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I'm also on blog spot as well
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Friday, May 31, 2013

My son is going to 2nd

So for those of you you who have been around and gave me advice I want to say thank you and I appreciate. My son has been promoted to the 2nd grade and I couldn't be happier. I still have work to do but I'm happy he is given the chance. He was working harder and he's reading better. Now that must continue for more success.

I'm happy I got the news yesterday with his report card.

I'm still saddened about the situation of Xanga but what can we do? I will surely miss this place. But, I can say it has brought me a lot of peace when I was able to express myself and more importantly it brought me the love of my life to me. Too bad we wont be able to post about it in the future but this place brought many gifts to us and I will always appreciate this place for that.